Been there!

We were together for 9 years and 2 kids before we had our day. Things happened, lost loved ones, family hospitalizations.... and bottom line is we did it when we could do what we wanted, which was to have our close friends and family there with us. That's how long it took us to get to that place in our lives. Although we had help, we felt comfortable in being able to pay for our venue ourselves, etc.

Don't let people put a timeline on you... I know you're not saying this but don't push the marriage because the baby's here now. Having a baby in the house is HARD and can put new stresses between the two of you.... (which I'm sure you've noticed already...) If I'd have had my way, we'd have been married 2 years ago when I was pregnant.... times were HARD for us at that time.... and we were not as emotionally strong as we are now, and I question if we would have made it.

This is all my opinion, of course. I'm not saying wait 10 years haha..... but maybe give it some time. Try to make time for the 2 of you without the baby sometimes too... don't let that get lost in the mix. It will come about when it's time!